The way I see it...

Upon my arrival home from Ireland, I was struck with a small amount of reverse culture shock. Of course, I was thrilled to see my family & friends, but I encountered a few events that I was not prepared for.  I'm sure most of you reading this (probably a total of 6 people) know what I'm referring to. Regardless; previous to my time abroad, I would have handled these situations much differently. I would have started with an anxiety attack and ended crying in my bed clutching my 20-pound cat. Now, I can proudly say that  my reactions to situations that do not go ideally have changed...for the better. I have learned that I cannot control everything.  There are things that are bigger than me, in which I must learn to live with. Moreover, I have learned to let things go.  Previously, I was so caught up in having every single moment of my life planned out, I never got the chance to actually enjoy & find myself.  While I was away, I became more independent than I ever imagined.  I realized I do not need someone to complete me, rather to compliment myself as a being.  I put myself out there, made new friends, experienced new things, and truly immersed myself in a new culture. 

As many of you may have gathered, I made an amazing new friend, Megan.  From the first day that I met Meg and jumped on her like she was my sister, I knew we were going to hit it off.  Meg and I share the same passion for working out, traveling, exploring, and food. Thus, making us inseparable.  She showed me how easy it is to have a strong friendship that requires no maintenance...we just clicked.  Since I've been home we have of course kept in touch and plan to do so for our remaining years....I'm pretty sure she'll be in my wedding. Sorry Meg, you're stuck with me now :)

Isn't she the cutest :)

The way I see it...studying abroad was the best decision I have ever made. I am incredibly lucky to have a family who supported me (financially and mentally) while I was away.  Without them, it would have never been possible.  While I was away I saw, felt, and heard things that no photograph or words could ever describe. I think that everyone should have an experience like I did, because without it..I would be just as lost and confused as I was four months ago. I was able to let go and live with no regrets, find myself, and learn more about myself than any classroom, professor, or text book could ever teach me. Overall, studying abroad was a sensational experience that I would not change for the world :)

And for the record.....Starbucks; If you are interested in hiring me as your newest "The way I see it" writer...just contact my agent...who's name is coincidentally Lea Swanson.

All the best & thanks for reading :)

Lea